
Rituals, according to psychologists, are the habits and customs we perform routinely with little or no thought. And as humans, we crave them.
Rituals bring order and calm to our often unpredictable lives. In groups, they foster a sense of community, belonging, and shared values, and have been used throughout our history to bring folks together during good times and bad. They make us more effective too.
According to Harvard researchers, rituals improve our performance in both public and private settings by reducing anxiety and helping us stay clear-headed.
At work, rituals help leaders and teams build culture, executive more effectively, and improve teamwork.
They’re especially valuable—but often challenging to get right—on hybrid or remote teams, where it’s harder to feel a sense of belonging.
In this article, we’ll break down how to think about rituals on your own team and share examples of remote and hybrid team rituals to get your started.
What are team rituals?
Team rituals are customs your team performs routinely together. Whether you’re aware of it or not, you probably have some team rituals already. Things like a weekly team lunch (virtual or IRL), daily standups, or a new hire onboarding course are all examples of team rituals.
Why team rituals are important
Rituals help teams foster belonging.
In a recent article, Range co-founder Dan Pupius explains why belonging is something every leader should care about.
“Team members need a sense of belonging to feel comfortable. They want to know that their work matters not only to their manager but to their co-workers. Nobody wants to feel like they're not pulling their weight, and when a team is firing on all cylinders, every individual feels like they have a role to play and are vital to the success and happiness of their peers. It's in rituals, both large and small, that team members gain that sense of camaraderie while feeling both supported and valued.” — Dan Pupius, Co-founder of Range, Inc.com
The benefits go both ways too. When folks feel valued by the team and leadership, they’re more likely to feel a deep level of accountability in their work and execute at a higher level.
Why rituals are key for remote and hybrid teams
To be most creative, you need to feel open and connected to your team.
When you're in the same office—it happens pretty naturally. You chat with people in the elevator, go out for lunch or a beer after work. You share stories about your life and your history which help people understand and relate to you better.
For remote or hybrid teams, rituals can help create some of that same understanding even while being apart. It takes more intention to get to know each other in the same way—but the work is critical if you want your team to work effectively together.
When to use team rituals
Team rituals can help foster connectedness and engagement during many different workplace moments. Here are a few examples of times when investing in team rituals can be impactful.
- To build culture and team rapport: Rituals help bring teams together through shared experience, and can be a powerful tool when folks are feeling disconnected or as your team grows.
- To drive momentum around work and projects: Team rituals can help keep teammates more energized and on-track as they work together to tackle a common goal. They might be process-related, like project kick-offs and daily check-ins, or more celebratory like a weekly moment of gratitude.
- To onboard new teammates: When new hires participate in rituals, it quickly helps them feel a greater sense of purpose and belonging within the org. For instance, Google new hires wear colorful beanies that say “Noogler” to initiate them into the group—it’s a shared experience that connects all employees.
- To support the team—especially during major shifts: Investing in rituals as your team grows or experiences big shifts, like a reorg, can help bring folks together and build a more supportive culture.
How to establish the right rituals for your team
Landing on the right team rituals is an iterative process. Like most new things your team tries, the best way to know what’s working is to observe and check-in with your team regularly. Here are some questions you can ask yourself and your team as you go.
- What are we looking to accomplish?
- What gives each of us energy? Are we a group of introverts? Extroverts? Or (most likely) a mix?
- Is this activity something people look forward to?
- After we take part in the ritual, what’s the impact on folk’s energy and engagement?
- How did individuals feel about themselves after participating?
- How did individuals feel about the team or project after participating?
8 ideas for remote and hybrid team rituals
Virtual water cooler or coffee chats
In an office, you’ve got snack kitchens, coffee corners, and break rooms as a space to casually connect with your teammates. When you’re remote or hybrid, it’s important to invest in virtual forums to do the same. You’ll see huge benefits to team trust and connectedness.
Whether it’s a designated Slack channel or 30-minute Zoom each morning, be sure you’re offering space where teammates can opt-in or out, without worrying that they're distracting others who are focusing on a task.